Step by Step; Word by Word

Every year, I choose a New Year’s challenge—one that is slightly out of reach so that it is in fact “a challenge”.

In December 2017, I was mindlessly scrolling through Facebook aware that the New Year was quickly approaching. I had not yet chosen my challenge. Facebook knows me oh so well! A sponsored ad extolling the benefits of a 365-day running-runner-long-distance-fitness-40751.jpegrunning streak appeared. I was intrigued. This would certainly be a challenge! Almost on a whim, I decided to go for it. A 2018 calendar I received as a gift became my running log, I picked a date during my Christmas vacation so I could ease into it while I was home, and began. Just like that… starting was easy. One foot in front of the other.

I am now 48 days into my running streak and have logged 132 miles. Some days, I run the bare minimum (one mile before midnight); however, on the weekend, I aim for three to six miles. On one particularly ambitious week, I ran 3 miles every day. You would be amazed how quickly the miles add up! In all honesty, I’ve had my fair share of aches and pains. After a long day at work, particularly in the first few weeks, I complained profusely as I headed to the treadmill asking myself why I was doing this stupid challenge, but it really hasn’t been that hard. I have more good days than bad. Surprisingly, the days I don’t want to run usually end up being my best runs.

A running streak is so much like writing. It is surprisingly easy to get started. You don’t need much for this challenge. Make sure you have some good running shoes, lightweight pants, shirt/sweater and off you go. I have even run in pajama pants before! Show up and run. One foot in front of the other… ready, set, go before you change your mind. With writing, you need even less to get started so now you have even fewer excuses. Open your journal, turn on your computer, get a pen or pencil, paper, tissue paper, napkins (channel your inner J.K Rowling), and write.

One day, I asked myself… If I could get this far in my running streak, why couldn’t I write every day? What was holding me back? The problem was that I didn’t have a challenge. I didn’t have a daily achievable goal (e.g. one mile). So, I came up with a really simple writing goal.

Write 50 words about anything every day before midnight.

Let’s put this into perspective. Fifty words equal 4 lines or so of text. It isn’t even a full paragraph. You could type, write or use speech-to-text recognition software in one third the time it would take to run half a mile. I placed the bar low on purpose. Set yourself up for success! Think about it… If you start with 500 to 1,000 words, you may not achieve your goals if you are not used to writing on a daily basis. Imagine choosing 10 miles as your minimum daily running goal!  You probably won’t reach your 365th day.

When I started the 50-word challenge, I stared at my journal longer than I care to admit. I had no idea what to write, I was too tired, I didn’t get enough sleep last night, I’m therefore exhausted, that book looks interesting (I read voraciously to avoid writing. In one week, I read four books!) and, OMG, I still have to run!! I couldn’t possibly write 50 words. This challenge is worse than my running streak! Really? Talk about dramatic! It is not! I had to tell myself over and over again… stop making excuses and write! You will have to be hard on yourself!

If you can’t think of anything to write, describe how much you love your pet, how was your day, create a how-to guide about a website you use regularly (these are easy and straightforward), start a story, or describe your living room. Or, like I did one day, write, “I am a writer. I am a writer” over and over again until you have your 50 words. It really doesn’t matter what the topic is. The whole point is to commit to a daily writing goal and follow through with it. You don’t even have to show anyone what you wrote although that does help to hold you accountable.

The first thirty days

The first thirty days of my running streak took an eternity! I came up with excuse after excuse—my ankle ached, I didn’t want to run, I was too tired from working all day, it is 16 degrees in the garage, I am absolutely, positively sick of running in cold, icy weather, 930pm, 1030pm, and even 1100pm runs were not at all appealing—but I never gave up on my challenge. I always ran. Even it was just a mile. Before I knew it, I was at 5, 10, 15, 28, and then 30 days. Even I was surprised! I have never run for 30 days straight. Ever.

Shortly after reaching the 30-day mark, I was in the groove. Running was part of my day. I rarely complained. I got ready, laced up my running shoes and off I went even if it was 11pm at night. I have completed many 11pm runs. They are growing on me now that I listen to audiobooks about writing. All of a sudden, the miles and days went by so quickly.

I am convinced that writing is the same way. We just have to start!! Before you know it, you will be further along with your writing goals than ever before.

I challenge you to start with 50 words today… step by step; word by word.




Overcome Your Grammar Fears. Use Grammarly!

The key to writing is to write every day. When you are new to writing, you will encounter unexpected obstacles—you may not know what to write, how to start, what genre to choose, grammar might not be your strength. All of these obstacles add up to the point where you don’t want to write at all. It seems too overwhelming!

Fortunately, there is a site you can use to check your grammar. It is called Grammarly. I absolutely love this site so far. It has already detected two missing Oxford commas which were never my forte. I either put in too many or not enough. It is nice to know that aspiring writers, like you and I, can check one obstacle off our list!

To begin using Grammarly, take a look at the below step-by-step guide:

Step by step guide:

1. Go to You will see the following page:

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2. Click on the green “Add to Chrome. It’s free” button. You will be taken to a screen that asks you about your writing projects and skills. Click on the drop-down arrow next to the underscored line and make your selection. It is really basic so you won’t be giving away any valuable information; however, if these questions are too intrusive, you have the option to skip this screen. You can find it under the green continue button.

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3. Once you click continue or skip, you will be asked for an email address to create your account. You also have the option of logging in with Facebook or Google. If you choose the email option which I did, you will be prompted to add a password as well as your name. The interface is very user-friendly!

4. At this point, you’re in! Welcome to Grammarly! You now have your free account as shown below. You can upgrade to Grammarly Premium if you choose. I kept it simple and continued with the free version.

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5. Click on the green “Continue to Grammarly” button. You will then come to a screen that walks you through its features. You can take the tour or click on “skip”. I did not provide screenshots of this section as it is really self-explanatory. You will see!

6. After you have skipped or completed the virtual tour, you are ready to check your first document. You will see the following screen. Either upload a document or click on the word “New”.

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I typed out a basic paragraph with known issues below. You can also copy and paste your text. As you can see below, the free version caught grammatical and spelling errors.

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Grammarly’s Function in WordPress

Do you remember the second step where we installed Grammarly into Chrome? You will notice that if you are logged into Grammarly and working on your blog in Chrome, it will suggest corrections while you are typing. This eliminates the need to copy and paste or upload text into Grammarly which saves valuable time.

Good luck with your writing endeavors! Don’t let grammar stop you from writing. We have enough obstacles as it is!

Now, make it happen! 🙂

Carpe diem!

Today is the day. Start writing!

Like so many others, I have wanted to write and publish a book since I was a child yet never knew how or where to start. Over the years, I bought several books about writing, read them with great intentions, yet never started writing. I have tried motivating myself with fancy journals featuring inspirational quotes on the front cover to no avail. They gather dust as I put off my dream another day.

About two weeks ago, I received an email from author Jeff Goins about a webinar called “Intentional Blog” in which he shares a proven path to creating a blog that gets noticed. We’ve all heard that sales pitch before, haven’t we?

“Join my course, follow this proven path,  and x, y, and z will happen! Sign up today!”

This time was different. I have been following Jeff’s Facebook page and blog for over a year. I enjoy his weekly emails and I have read three of his six books (Real Artists Don’t Starve, The Art of Work and You are a Writer). Most importantly, the webinar looked really interesting and I was under no obligation to purchase anything. I didn’t want to neglect my dream any longer so I signed up.

A few days later (the day of the webinar) my dogs’ vet appointment took longer than expected so I listened to Jeff’s live presentation while driving home. I pulled into the driveway just as the Q&A section was beginning. At that moment, I knew I had to get serious about writing. My dream and I weren’t getting any younger. With my two dogs impatiently waiting in the back seat, I parked the car and signed up for Jeff’s Intentional Blog course which offers a multitude of two to 15-minute videos with helpful assignments at the end of each. The course cost $197.00—a small price to pay for a dream, I thought.

Since joining the self-paced course, I have watched 6 videos in which he talks about the right mindset, the purpose of blogging and how to set up a blog. The videos are short so that you can watch one daily, if you so choose.

Thanks to Jeff’s course, and lessons I have learned from running and music, I am convinced that you can accomplish anything if you work on it a little at a time. You are never too old to start.

We can do this!!

Best wishes,